Welcome back, my Chime! I am Pixie and this is Diary of a Bipolar Pixie, the blog I created to rant and write about all of the topics that I become obsessed with. This is the last post I’m making for pride month until next year (or unless something major happens that I feel you should absolutely know about), and it’s all about what isn’t accepted or appropriate in the LGBTQ+ community.
This is going to be a relatively shorter post, unless I can think of other things to add to this post. I might consider adding some historical events, or some famous people to admire, or something that contributes to the community.
To begin, let’s talk about gatekeeping, and why it’s not allowed in the community, for a second. Gatekeeping occurs when someone tries to tell people what they are or are not allowed to be or do. The most common way I see this happen is when someone who is attracted to multiple genders calls themselves bisexual, and someone else comes along and says they’re a liar, because bisexuals can only be attracted to men or women. Please remember that I already made a post explaining and defining these terms. While I’ve never done this myself, I have seen it said to people I went to school. I’ll be the first to admit that I was wrong for not standing up for them, and I regret it to this day.
That being said, the LGBTQ+ community as a whole has agreed on that one “orientation” is absolutely not allowed whatsoever. “Pedosexual” is a term constructed by pedophiles to attempt to normalize their disgusting behavior. They also came up with a new “gender” term for themselves, but I can’t remember what it was, and I’m not dignifying it by looking it up. The term essentially means that they feel like children trapped in adult bodies and that’s why they should be allowed to have relations with children. I absolutely refuse to call them “underage persons” because they are children! They are babies who don’t have the know how or the experience or even the brain capacity to understand the repercussion that can come from having sex. Not to mention that sex and rape at such a young age can have lasting detrimental effects on their minds and bodies. It’s disgusting and deplorable and I truly believe that anyone who prays on innocent children should be sterilized and locked away for the entirety of their lives.
Polygamy is also not currently apart of the community, though they’re are people who are trying to make it. Polygamy doesn’t inherently refer to sexual orientation or gender identity, which is why it originally doesn’t fall into the community. However, in recent months, I’ve heard rumors from my favorite coworkers, not really seen any reports on the issue, that say that their are a number of non-Mormon polygamists who are pushing for polygamy to be included. This makes me giggle for one reason, the Mormon community actively preaches against LGBTQ+, but if polygamy is included into that community, then those individuals in those relationships would then be apart of a community they actively preach against. My only issue with this push for inclusion is that it sounds like a way to sneakily make it legal for polygamists to get married under an LGBTQ+ headline, if that makes any sense. It feels like they’re trying to piggy back off of a much bigger issue.
Beastiality is also not part of the community, for good reason. I cannot fathom how someone looks at a sheep and says, “I want that ass.” I really just want to know what in their brain says that that’s okay in any capacity.
Kinks are also not aspects considered in the community. Everyone has their kinks, and anything that occurs between two consenting adults is entirely their business and only their business. Homosexuals, heterosexuals, bisexuals, pansexuals, everyone has their own kinks.
That means most other -philia suffixes are not considered in the community either. That includes necrophilia, coprophilia, gerontophilia, and somnophilia. There’s so many more, but their considered kinks, and a decent amount of them are illegal for reasons of taking advantage of, raping, and hurting other living creatures.
And that’s what I can find on the matter. Thank you for reading through this little information drop off for you. You are all dolls and doves and darlings for wanting to take the opportunity to learn so much about the community with me, and I hope you had a safe and happy pride month.
Here’s an idea, send me your stories and pictures and I’ll post them here for fun. I love hearing what other people did, if they participated in a parade or a walk or had a party or whatever else you can think of to include in a big post. You can comment on here if you want to share your story, or go to the contact me section of the page to find ways of getting ahold of me. I’m really excited to see your journeys.
With love and good wishes, fly high Chimers!
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